励志美文：第6期 育儿
Children
育儿
You can teach, but you can’t force.
你可以教育，但不能强迫。
I love children and they love me.
我爱孩子们，孩子们也爱我。
Open, loving communication with children is one of my greatest joys.
和孩子之间无拘无束又亲切温馨的交流是我最大的快乐。
I listen to what they say, and they listen to what I say.
我们相互倾听。
Children always imitate adults.
孩子总是在模仿大人。
If a child near me is behaving negatively, I examine my own negative beliefs.
如果我发现哪个孩子的行为有负面倾向，我会仔细查看是否是因为自己的消极信念而起。
I know that as I heal myself, I will also help to heal the child.
我知道这么做不但是在治愈自己，也是在治愈孩子。
I affirm that I love myself unconditionally.
我确定我无条件地爱着自己。
I become consciously willing to let go of all negative beliefs.
我会有意识地抛却所有消极的信念。
I become an example of a positive, loving person.
我努力成为一个积极且慈爱的典型。
The child can then begin to love herself or himself, and their negative behavior dissolves, sometimes immediately, sometimes gradually. 孩子也会开始爱自己，他们的负面行为也会马上或者逐渐得消除。
I also connect with my own inner child.
此外，我还跟我的内在小孩连接。
As I stabilize my adult life, my inner child feels safe and loved.
当我稳定我的成年生活时，我的内在小孩也感到安全和被爱。
With safety and love comes the willingness to go beyond many old patterns.
这种安全感和爱让我愿意去超越很多旧有的模式。