演讲稿：I Don't Like You,
演讲稿：I Don’t Like You,
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I Don’t Like You.
I was a good boy.
But it changed after I met a girl.
I was told that, if you want to win a girl’s heart.
You must destroy the heart of the boy she liked.
Contest chair, my fellow girls,
My boy is XiaoMing, a real bad boy who enjoys smoking.
He smoked 1 cigarette every day, I smoked 2.
He smoked in the toilet, I smoked in the classroom
Finally, she was attracted by me, it’s not a girl but a lady.
It is my teacher.
I stood like a soldier in her office for a whole day.
After going out the office, I saw the girl.
She looked at my eyes, and said, you are just like my smoker father.
I don’t like you.
In the following years, I became a badboy, I always cater to girl’s pleasure, regards them as my treasure, but theynever say to me: sure.
Girls refused me again and again. They always said, I don’t like you.
My friends, what would you do when you are refused by the girls you loved?
I got a good idea to prevent this heart-breaking thing happen again.
That is,
Just give up. Who said a boy must need a girlfriend?
When I was focused on others but not girls, I found the life, is very boring.
So I got an internship in a famous chemical engineering company after graduation.
Leon is the manager, he looks like a Panda, but this panda is not cute.
After 2 months internship, I did a presentation to win the chance to be a formal employee.
I was for sure to get it. My material is very good, my delivering is very good, even my looks is also very good. However,
The panda didn’t think so, he sat in front of me, looked at my eyes, he said,
No data, No facts, No conclusion, Murk, your presentation, is kind of grandstand, I don‘t like you.
You see, I was refused by my dream company. It is the first one, then I was turned down by the second one, third one.
I felt lost, from then on; I never go to see panda even I am living in Chengdu.
My dear friends,
Do you have the same problem? Do you hear the same voice from others?
They said, I don’tlike you. When you are refused, you may feel lost, it’s difficult to build up the confidence again.
This time, I haveno choice, I just Gave UP.
Because I need a job immediately, and then I got a job.
This company is not my dream, but it is special. There is a special club in the company.
After paying the membership fee, the club didn’t refuse me.
In my icebreaking speech, I told the story about the girls, about the panda, about the people who always refused me.
Steven, a tough individual evaluator. He didn’t say Idon’t like you because it’s one of the 5 taboos in a toastmaster meeting, but he refused my CC1 directly without any mercy.
He asked me, why are you focusing on others but not yourself when they say I don’t like you.
I was shocked by this question and couldn’t answer in that time.
I think over and over, something need to be changed， this is my life changing moment.
I quit smoking, and advise my father to quit smoking too.
I went to see real panda; it is really cute like Leo.
I began to study toastmaster seriously to find the answer of that question.
OH, I got it,
When I wasre fused by girls, by the dream companies, even by evaluators, actually nobody refused me but myself, I refused myself to be a good boy, refused myself to bea good employee, refused myself to be a good toastmaster.
My friends, have you ever doubt yourself when somebody say I don’t like you? I have. Even if we try to deny it as much as possible,but sometimes we are the person who reminds us to give up, we are the person whore fused ourselves to be a better man.
This time, I didn’t give up, I didn’t refuse myself anymore, I accept and open myself. I delivered my CC1 again, up to CC10. I discovered I could speak, I love speaking. the storytelling talent is inside of me, it made me to win the heart of a girl, it mademe to become a trainer in my company， it made me to stand here as a real toastmaster.
My dear friends, nobody but yourself is a barrier for your success, nobody but yourself can refuse you, let us stride the barrier, letus accept and open ourselves, let us become a better yourself.
And then, someday, someone will look at your eyes and say something to you,
I like you.