TED演讲之身体语言 别对我撒谎(15)
But at night when I close my eyes, I can see Christie reaching her hand out to me while I’m driving, and the blood just kept coming out of her mouth.
但是每当晚上我闭上双眼,我可以看见克里斯蒂向我伸出手,我一边开着车,血不停地从她口里冒出来。
And that — maybe it’ll fade too with time — but I don’t think so. That bothers me the most.
也许时间久了我就会淡忘,但是,我觉得不可能。这让我寝食难安。
Now I’m going to show you a video of an actual grieving mother, Erin Runnion, confronting her daughter’s murderer and torturer in court.
现在我给你们看另一个视频,这是一位真正悲伤的母亲艾琳·兰尼恩,这是她在法庭上与虐杀自己女儿的凶手对质的情形。
Here you’re going to see no false emotion, just the authentic expression of a mother’s agony.
你完全看不到任何虚假的情绪。这是一位心痛欲绝的母亲真实的哭斥。
I wrote this statement on the third anniversary of the night you took my baby, and you hurt her, and you crushed her, you terrified her until her heart stopped.
在你带走我宝贝的三年后的同一天,我写下了这段话,你伤害了她,把她打得体无完肤,害她惊恐万状直到她心脏停止了跳动。
And she fought, and I know she fought you.
她反抗了,我知道她反抗了。
But I know she looked at you with those amazing brown eyes, and you still wanted to kill her.
我也知道她用她那双美丽的棕色眼睛看着你,而你还是对她痛下杀手。
And I don’t understand it, and I never will.
我不能理解,永远都不能理解。
Okay, there’s no doubting the veracity of those emotions.
好了,毫无疑问这些情绪都是真的。
演讲简介:
每一天,都有人对我们说10次到200次谎。判断人是否在说谎的线索可能是细微而难以察觉的。《识破谎言》的作者Pamela Meyer讲述了测谎专家所使用的手法和“热点表情”,并提出诚实可贵的观点。