英文欣赏:Solitude 独处

Part 4 Solitude 第四部分 独处 I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers. A man thinking or working is alway...

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美文阅读 (159)伤心时不必独处

There are times when we are faced with illnesses, disorders, disabilities some type of tragedy 有时候我们会遭遇疾病,混乱,无力等一些灾难, that causes us to lose contact with ourselves and the world in which we live. 这些灾难会暂时使我们迷失自我,并与这个我们赖以生存的世界失去联系。 Our happiness begins to fade and our heart begins to grow heavy. 我们的快乐...

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培养孩子独处能力

美国就父母对孩子哭闹的态度作过一项研究,结果发现,哭了之后立即收到反应的婴儿,1岁以后还会哭闹的比率比较低。研究者认为,母亲对婴儿的需求愈是敏感,婴儿就愈有安全感,不但能和妈妈建立良好的亲子关系,而且敢于外出探索,逐渐脱离依赖。 让小婴儿独处,并不是指丢下他一人,让他真正“独处”,而是指在喂完奶、换好尿布后,把他安排在母亲工作的房间里,让他自己玩。刚开始,孩子可能玩...

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不同阶段孩子独处的特点

父母过度教导,过分地剥夺宝贝自主判断的机会,或者以开发智力的名义利用各种学习活动填满孩子的日常生活,孩子就会失去很多自我探索的机会。那么,父母与孩子相处嬉戏的度应该如何掌握呢? 解析: 不同阶段独处的特点 0-1岁 当婴儿身心舒服时,他常常会伊伊呀呀地说着“话”,玩弄着自己的小手、小脚丫,不时翻动一下身子,开开心心而又不受打扰地独自玩耍。虽然我们无法确切地了解他究竟在想...

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