TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(5)

So we need to make damn sure that the programs that our kids are receiving are not only having a positive impact, 因此我们要确保我们的孩子们正在接受的项目不仅是对他们有积极影响的, but having a lasting impact as well. 而且还要有持续的影响。 And the research shows that the best programs address six key areas: 研究表明最好的项目跟六个关键领域有关: The first is the influence o...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(4)

And we think it's for all of these reasons that they take more risks with things like alcohol and drug use; 基于以上理由,我们认为他们有更高的风险去做那些像酗酒、吸毒、 crash dieting; cosmetic surgery; unprotected, earlier sex;and self-harm. 快速减肥、整容、无防护措施以及过早的性交和自残这样的事情。 The pursuit of the perfect body is putting pressure on our healthcare sy...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(3)

But, what's the problem with all of this? 但是, 所有的这些表现的问题是什么呢? Well, surely we want our kids to grow up as healthy, well balanced individuals. 我们当然希望我们的孩子成长为一个健康、均衡发展的个人。 But in an image-obsessed culture, we are training our kids to spend more time and mental effort on their appearance at the expense of all of the other aspects o...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(2)

Thousands of people are posting videos like this,mostly teenage girls, reaching out in this way. 有成千上万的人们上传这样的视频,他们中大部分都是十几岁的女孩,用这种方式来接触外界。 But what's leading them to do this? 然而是什么导致他们这样做的呢? Well, today's teenagers are rarely alone. 今天的青少年很少独处。 They're under pressure to be online and available a...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(7)

Let's show them that the way you look is just one part of your identity and that the truth is we love them for who they are and what they do and how they make us feel. 让我们向他们表明长相只是身份的一部分,而事实是我们爱他们是因为他们是谁和他们的所做所为以及他们给我们的感觉。 Let's build self-esteem into our school curriculums. 让我们在学校的课程中设置自尊心科目。 Le...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(1)

This is my niece, Stella. 这是我的侄女,斯特拉。 She's just turned one and started to walk. 她刚满一岁并开始学走路了。 And she's walking in that really cool way that one-year-olds do,a kind of teetering, my-body's-moving- too-fast-for-my-legs kind of way. 她正在用一岁的小孩通常使用的非常酷的方式走路,那种摇摇晃晃、身体比腿移动得快得多的方式。 It is absolutely gor...

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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利(6)

And let me ask you, 让我来问问你, when was the last time that you kissed a mirror? 你上一次对着镜子亲吻是什么时候? Ultimately, we need to work together as communities, as governments and as businesses to really change this culture of ours so that our kids grow up valuing their whole selves, 最终,我们需要跟社区、政府和企业一起努力去改变我们的这些文化,这样我们的孩子才能在...

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