Happiness is a Journey幸福是一段旅程We convince ourselves that life will be better，after we get married, have a baby, then another.我们总是相信，等我们结了婚，生了一个又一个的孩子之后，生活就会更美好。Then we&#39re frustrated that the kids aren&#39t old enough and we&#39ll be more content when they are.等有了孩子，我们又因为他们总长不大而烦恼，想着等他们大些时，我们就会开心了。

Why do so many people reach success and then fail?为什么有这么多人在成功以后失败？One of the big reasons is, we think success is a one-way street.最主要的原因之一是，我们把成功当作一条单行道。So we do everything that leads up to success, but then we get there.我们尽其所能地达到成功，当我们到达那一步以后，We figure we&#39ve made it, we sit back in our comfort z

And reaching success, I always did what I loved.为了成功，我总是做我最喜欢的事。But then I got into stuff that I didn&#39t love, like management.但不喜欢的事慢慢接踵而来，像管理。I am the world&#39s worst manager, but I figured I should be doing it, because I was, after all, the president of the company.我是世界上最糟糕的管理者，但当时我觉得这就是我该做的，因

And yeah, the black cloud faded a little bit, but so did all the work, because I was just floating along.乌云似乎有点消散了，但工作也是，因为我如坠云中。I couldn&#39t care less if clients ever called.我根本不在乎客户有没有与我联系。And clients didn&#39t call. Because they could see I was no longer serving them, I was only serving myself.事

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