and you need to fold the worst events of your life 你必须把生命中最糟糕的时间， into a narrative of triumph, 揉搓成胜利的故事， evincing a better self 用更好的自己 in response to things that hurt. 来还击能伤害你的事物。 One of the other mot
The other thing is, before we get too arrogant about this 但别骄傲 另外一件事就是 We all spend 99.5% of our time to think about the 0.5% of us is different. 我们每个人都花费99.5%的时间 去想我们那0.5%的不同 Don't we? All of us
