Gay rights are not primarily marriage rights, 同性恋权益不主要是婚姻权益， and for the millions who live in unaccepting places 而对数以百万生活在不包容 with no resources, 和缺少资源地方的人们， dignity remains elusive. 尊严是可望而不可及的。 I am l
And I sometimes wonder 有时候我在想 whether I could have found such fulfillment 如果婚姻和孩子 in marriage and children 来得更容易些， if they'd come more readily, 我是否会找到这样的满足， if I'd been straight in my youth or
