Am I That Easy to Forget? 我就如此无足轻重？ They say you found somebody new 有人说你有了新目标 But that won't stop my loving you 但这不会减少我对你的爱 I just can't let you walk away 我只是不愿看着你这样走开 Forget the love I had for you 这样
and if you think about the little kid who sits on your lap 如果你想像一下，有个小孩坐在你大腿上 and who is cozily nested here and very secure and comfortable, 他舒服地坐在那里，既安全又舒适 and at some point all of us need to go out
In love, we want to have, we want to know the beloved. 在爱情中，我们想要拥有，我们想要了解我们的爱人 We want to minimize the distance. We want to contract that gap. 我们想腻在一起，想跨越阻碍 We want to neutralize the tensions. We want
And we tend to fall in love with somebody 我们会倾向于 from the same socioeconomic background, 在同等的社会、经济背景， the same general level of intelligence, 同样智力水平， the same general level of good looks, 同等的相貌， the s
So knowing that there was superficial data 既然公式配对， that was being used to match me up with other people, 用的是肤浅信息 I decided instead to ask my own questions. 我决定，自己问问题 What was every single possible thi
So I just copied and pasted from my resume. 所以我直接把简历，复制粘贴上去 So in the descriptive part up top, 上面，描述部分 I said that I was an award-winning journalist 我说我是，获奖记者 and a future thinker. 和未来思考者 When I was a
So my name is Amy Webb, 我的名字呢，叫艾米·韦伯 and a few years ago I found myself at the end 几年前，我发现自己走到 of yet another fantastic relationship 又一段美好恋情的尽头 that came burning down in a spectacular fashion. 一切绚丽消逝
Well, one month later, 一个月，之后 I had a lot of data, and I was able to do another analysis. 我收集了大量数据，足够再分析一回 And as it turns out, content matters a lot. 结果发现，内容很重要 So smart people tend to write a lot --
I would also like to tell the world that animals love. 我还想分享一下关于动物爱情的故事。 There's not an animal on this planet 世界上任何一种动物 that will copulate with anything that comes along. 都不会饥不择食地寻找活物进行交配。 Too old
We are the only ones who have an erotic life, 人类是唯一过性生活的物种， which means that it's sexuality transformed by the human imagination. 所谓性生活完全是人类想象出来的东西 We are the only ones who can make love for hours
So, why does good sex so often fade, 为何性爱的激情那么容易褪色？ even for couples who continue to love each other as much as ever? 就算是那些爱得如胶似漆的夫妇也无一例外。 And why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, 为何亲密的爱情也无法
You all know this story. 你们都知道这个故事. In the summer of 1950, 在1950年的夏天, Enrico Fermi, the Italian-American physicist Enrico Fermi, 美籍意大利心理学家 and atomic-pile builder, 和原子堆创造者 went to lunch at Los Alamos
And a lot of the time the question of parenthood is, 父母常常面对的问题是 what do we validate in our children, 孩子在哪些方面值得肯定 and what do we cure in them? 哪些方面需要治愈？ Jim Sinclair, a prominent autism activist, said,
I'm going to go off script and make Chris quite nervous here 我打算不按预定的来，这让克里斯很紧张 by making this audience participation. 我打算让观众参与互动 All right. Are you with me? Yeah. Yeah. All right. 懂我的意思吧，懂。很好 So
Encounter one: Ocean City, New Jersey, 1980. 遭遇一: 1980年,新泽西的欧欣城. This was the summer when the special edition of 那是个夏天,正好赶上《第三类接触》的 "Close Encounters of the Third Kind" was released. 特别版发布.
I was one of the only kids in college who had a reason 上大学时，我是唯一一个需要 to go to the P.O. box at the end of the day, 在一天结束的时候去开邮箱的人， and that was mainly because my mother has never believed 主要是因为我妈妈从不信赖
Close encounter four: the Algarve, 遭遇四:阿尔加瓦 Portugal, 1991. 葡萄牙,1991. Some years later, I and this woman -- 许多年过后,我和这个女人-- we'll call her "Catherine Fletcher" -- 我们将称她为“Catherine Fletche
So when I was in Morocco, 我在摩洛哥的时候， in Casablanca, not so long ago, 不久前，在卡萨布兰卡， I met a young unmarried mother called Faiza. 我遇到一个名叫法伊扎（Faiza）的年轻未婚妈妈。 Faiza showed me photos of her infant son 法伊扎给我看了她
I believe that there are new, hidden tensions 我相信，有新的，隐藏的紧张关系 that are actually happening between people and institutions -- 发生在人们与制度之间， institutions that are the institutions that people 在人们日常生活中 inh
So, think of the three settings I've talked to you about: 那么想想这3个我所谈到的背景： factory, migration, office. 工厂，移民，办公室。 But it could be in a school, it could be an administration, 但这也可能在学校，在政府， it could
