编者按: 对我来说，演艺事业的成功是次要的，人生最重要的是美满的婚姻、一个好丈夫和一双越来越有出息的子女。这些我都得到了，对此我心存感激。可是，无论我得到什么物质上的恩赐，真正的幸福必须源自我的内心。没有对他人的付出就不可能有任何回报。众所周知，随时准备行善才是根除忧愁的良药。 Don’t Step Out of Character By VIRGINIA SALE ON A PLANE flyi
So this whole interaction with self and identity was a very difficult one for me growing up. 在我成长过程中，我一直都很难处理自我与身份之间的相互影响。 The self that I attempted to take out into the world was rejected over and ov
And when I'm acting a role, I inhabit another self, and I give it life for awhile, 当我表演一个角色时，我进入了另一个自我，我在一段时间内赋予其生命， because when the self is suspended so is divisiveness and judgment. 当自我被抑制时，它的多样性和判
Another world was opening up around this time: performance and dancing. 在这个时候，另一个世界出现了：那就是表演和舞蹈。 That nagging dread of self-hood didn't exist when I was dancing. 对于自我纠缠不清的恐惧，在我跳舞时并不存在。 I'd literally l
I was in Congo in February, 二月份的时候我在刚果， dancing and celebrating with women who've survived the destruction of their selves in literally unthinkable ways 与那些自我曾遭受难以想象的毁灭的女人们一起跳舞庆祝， destroyed because ot
Strangely, these revelations didn't cure my low self-esteem, that feeling of otherness. 奇怪的是，这些启示并没有治愈我那缺少的自尊，那种被划为另类的感觉。 My desire to disappear was still very powerful. 我渴望消失的想法依旧十分强烈。 I had a degree
By 19, I was a fully-fledged movie actor, but still searching for definition. 当我19岁时，我已经是一个羽翼丰满的电影演员，但却仍在寻找定义。 I applied to read anthropology at university. 我在大学里申请攻读人类学。 Dr. Phyllis Lee gave me my in
I Want To Be A Better Person 我想成为更好的人 I want to be the kind of person who gives without expecting anything in return instead of continuing my selfish streak. 我想成为一个付出但不求回报的人，而不是继续做自私自利的事。 I want to sp
Be the Best of Whatever You Are -- Douglas Malloch 做最好的自己--道格拉斯·马罗奇 If you can't be a pine on the top of the hill 如果你当不了山巅的一棵劲松 Be a scrub in the valley 就做山谷里的灌木 But be the best little scrub by the si
Just Be You -- Anthem Lights 做你自己 No one can do it just like you 没有人能像你一样 Something magic in the way you move 那样的充满魔力 You're original, you know it's true 你知道的，你是最初的你 Don't let anybody take your tune 不
Never Stop Being You -- Terrie Brushette 做自己--特里·布鲁塞塔 Never stop caring about the little things in life. 时刻关注生活的细节。 Never stop dreaming, and don't give into strife. 时刻保持梦想，不要向困难屈服。 Never stop wonderin
Let Your Light Shine -- Ellen Bailey 让自身发光--艾伦·贝利 Does the light of your soul still shine 你灵魂的光是否耀眼四射 Is it still a beacon that others can find 它是否还能被他人发现感知到 Or does a guilty conscience cover it like
