Stranger in the Night 黑夜里的陌生人 Many television programs are very realistic. 很多电视节目极其逼真。 The viewer often feels 观众经常感到 that whatever happened in the film could well happen to him. 片中情节会碰巧在自己身上重演。 With o
The first one is that it liberates us. 第一个好处在于，这样做能够使我们解放自我。 When you think about it, using perception instead of categories is much easier said than done. 想一下，依赖自己的觉察力而不是已有的“陌生人”范畴，的确是说起来容易做起来难。 Cate
So imagine you're at a party, and you can't believe that your friend or your spouse 假设你在参加派对，你无法接受你的朋友或者是配偶， isn't picking up on it that you want to leave early. 竟然没有注意到你想要早点离开。 And you're thinking, "
So, here it is. 所以总的来说， When you talk to strangers, you're making beautiful interruptions 当你在与陌生人聊天的时候，你通过介绍自己的经历， into the expected narrative of your daily life and theirs. 对自己和别人的生活进行了非常美妙的打扰。 You'r
In Egypt, I'm told, it's rude to ignore a stranger, 在埃及，有人告诉我，无视陌生人是十分没有礼貌的做法， and there's a remarkable culture of hospitality. 并且有很多关于友善的文化。 Strangers might ask each other for a sip of water. 陌生人之间可以
Another is what I call noticing. 另外个技巧我称它为"关注"。 This is usually giving a compliment. 一般在这种情况下要赞美别人。 I'm a big fan of noticing people's shoes. 我十分注意别人的鞋子， I'm actually not wearing fabulous shoes right
For a minute, I felt like my existence as a person had been noticed, and I was worth saving. 有那么一会儿，我觉得我的存在被人注意到了，并且我是值得被拯救的。 The really sad thing is, in many parts of the world, 但让人遗憾的是，在世界的很多地方， we'
It's the good feeling I got 这就是那位老人将我 from being saved from the death trap of the storm drain by the old man, 从雨篦子的“死亡陷阱”中“拯救”出来之后，我得到的那种美妙的感觉； or how I feel like part of a community when I talk to so
There are things we say when we catch the eye of a stranger or a neighbor walking by. 当我们看到一个陌生人或者一个邻居走过的时候，我们会寒暄几句。 We say, "Hello, how are you? It's a beautiful day. How do you feel?" 我们会说：“你好。最近怎么样
