TED演讲之败中求胜 解读羞耻(1)

I'm going to tell you a little bit about my TEDxHouston Talk. 我要跟大家讲一点关于我TEDxHouston演讲的事。 I woke up the morning after I gave that talk with the worst vulnerability hangover of my life. 在演讲之后的那个早上,是我这辈子经历过最糟糕,最脆弱的宿醉。 And I actually didn't leave my house for about three days. 而且我有三天都足不出户。 The first time I left w...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 不要一悔再悔(10)

Now there is a case to be made that control freaks and perfectionists should not get tattoos, and I'm going to return to that point in a few minutes. 那么有一点就是控制狂和完美主义者千万别纹身,一会儿我会提到这一点。 But first I want to say that the intensity and persistence with which we experience these emotional components of regret is obviously going to vary depending...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 解读羞耻(13)

And so I'll leave you with this thought. 所以我想把这些思考留给大家。 If we're going to find our way back to each other, vulnerability is going to be that path. 如果我们想找到重归彼此的方法。脆弱将会是正确的路径。 And I know it's seductive to stand outside the arena, 我知道站在竞技场外面是很诱人的, because I think I did it my whole life, and think to myself, 因...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 温和的成功哲学(5)

You know, in the Middle Ages, in England, when you met a very poor person, that person would be described as an "unfortunate" 你知道,在中世纪的英国,当你遇见一个非常穷苦的人,你会认为他“不走运”, literally, somebody who had not been blessed by fortune, an unfortunate. 直接地说,那些不被幸运之神眷顾的人,不幸的人。 Nowadays, particularly in the United States, if yo...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 去怀疑的勇气(8)

And yes, there was a lot of conflict and debate and argument, 当然,这其中有很多的矛盾和辩论, but that allowed everyone around the table to be creative, to solve the problem, and to change the device. 不过这使得所有人都变得有创造力,都能去解决问题,去改变这台设备。 Joe was what a lot of people might think of as a whistle-blower, except that like almost all whistle-blowers, ...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 你为何不会成就伟业(2)

I'm not quite sure why you decide not to do it. You're too lazy to do it. It's too hard. 我不太确定你为什么决定不去做。你太懒了。这事太难。 You're afraid if you look for your passion and don't find it, you'll feel like you're an idiot, 你害怕如果你去寻找梦想然后找不到,你会觉得你像个白痴, so then you make excuses about why you're not going to...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 医生们会犯错误(7)

And it wasn't because of my attending; he was a doll. 而这也不是因为我的主治;他人非常好。 He talked to the family, and I'm quite sure that he smoothed things over and made sure that I didn't get sued. 他和那家人好好的谈过。我确定他为了确保我没有被控告而替我打了圆场。 And I kept asking myself these questions. Why didn't I ask my attending? 但我仍然不断问我自...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 怎样从错误中学习(2)

In the time that passes between when I was a kid in high school and when I started teaching, 在过去的这几年间,从我还在念高中到我开始教书的时候, we really see the advent of the Internet. 我们真的亲眼目睹网络的发展。 Right about the time that the Internet gets going as an educational tool, 就在网络开始作为教学用的工具发展的时候, I take off from Wisconsin and move to Kansas,...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 怎样从错误中学习(4)

Fast-forward to Pennsylvania, where I find myself today. 快进到宾州,我现在住的地方。 I teach at the Science Leadership Academy, 我在科学领导学院教书, which is a partnership school between the Franklin Institute and the school district of Philadelphia. 它是富兰克林学院和费城学区协同的合办的。 We are a nine through 12 public school, but we do school quite differently. 我们是...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 医生们会犯错误(10)

It's a system in which there are two kinds of physicians — those who make mistakes and those who don't, 在这个制度当中,只有两种人 — 犯错的不犯错的, those who can't handle sleep deprivation and those who can, those who have lousy outcomes and those who have great outcomes. 可以调适睡眠不足的和不可以忍受的,以及那些有着糟糕的结果和有着优秀的结果的。 A...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 犯错的价值(4)

I'll give you an analogy. 让我给你一个例子。 Do you remember that Loony Tunes cartoon where there's this pathetic coyote who's always chasing and never catching a roadrunner? 你记得卡通里那个总是在追逐却从未抓到猎物的土狼吗? In pretty much every episode of this cartoon, 几乎在每一集里, there's a moment where the coyote is chasing the roadrunner and the road...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 解读羞耻(7)

We heard a brilliant simple solution to not killing people in surgery, which is, have a checklist. 我们听说了一个简单有效的方法,来降低手术中病人的死亡率,就是准备一个事项清单。 You can't fix that problem without addressing shame, 不解决羞耻感就不会有这个方案, because when they teach those folks how to suture, they also teach them how to stitch their self-worth to being...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 温和的成功哲学(7)

And I went to talk to them about certain of the great tragedies of Western art. 我去找他们聊聊西方艺术中最伟大的几个悲剧故事。 I wanted to see how they would seize the bare bones of certain stories, 我想知道他们会如何露骨地以新闻的方式, if they came in as a news item at the news desk on a Saturday afternoon. 在周日下午的新闻台上呈现这些经典悲剧故事。 I mentioned Othello; th...

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TED演讲之入门 宏观历史(6)

But of course, life is more than just exotic chemistry. 但是当然,生命不仅仅是奇异的化学物质。 How do you stabilize those huge molecules that seem to be viable? 那是怎么稳定那些大量的、似乎有存活的分子的呢? Well, it's here that life introduces an entirely new trick. 这就是生命呈现的一个全新的窍诀。 You don't stabilize the individual; you stabilize the template, the ...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 试验 排除错误和万能神力(12)

And you sometimes need to be shocked out of that. 而有的时候我们需要把这种感觉抖掉。 Now I'm not going to pretend that this is easy. It isn't easy. It's incredibly painful. 现在我不想假装这是件容易的事情。这并不容易。这会是个痛苦的过程。 And since I started talking about this subject and researching this subject, 自从我开始谈论这个话题,研究这个话题, I've be...

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TED演讲之身体语言 别对我撒谎(6)

We're hardwired to become leaders of the pack. 我们天生就喜欢做领导。 It's starts really, really early. How early? 这从很早很早就开始了。多早? Well babies will fake a cry, pause, wait to see who's coming and then go right back to crying. 婴儿就会假哭,停一下,看看谁走过来,接着哭。 One-year-olds learn concealment. 一岁的孩子就学会隐瞒事实了。 Two-year-olds bluff...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 试验 排除错误和万能神力(2)

So Archie splits the men under his care as best he can into two equal groups. 所以阿奇就把他的病人平分成两组人。他给其中的一半维他命C。他给另一半维他命B12。 He gives half of them vitamin C. He gives half of them vitamin B12. 他给其中的一半维他命C。他给另一半维他命B12。 He very carefully and meticulously notes his results in an exercise book. 他非常小心谨慎把他的结果记录在一...

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TED演讲之身体语言 一个编舞者的现场创作过程(5)

It's a bit of a cross of my arm. 一些手臂的交叉。 So all I'm doing is exploring this space of "T" and flashing through it with some action. 我在做的仅仅是探索“T”的空间,通过一些动作穿梭于这个空间。 I'm not remembering what I'm doing. 我没有在记忆我做过的动作。 I'm just working on my task. My task is this "T." Going to watch it from the...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 不要一悔再悔(6)

Now within that framework, we can obviously experience regret about a lot of different things. 在这个模式下,我们显然常常后悔很多事情。 This session today is about behavioral economics. And most of what we know about regret comes to us out of that domain. 今天这个会议是关于行为经济学。我们知道的大部分“后悔”都是来自这个范围。 We have a vast body of literature on consumer and ...

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TED演讲之身体语言 别对我撒谎(11)

Why do they do that? Well, we all do the same thing. 嫌疑人为什么会这样?这其实是人之常情。 We rehearse our words, but we rarely rehearse our gestures. 我们会事先想好说什么,但很少事先想好做什么样的动作。 We say "yes," we shake our heads "no." 我们说“是”而我们却在摇头表示“否”。 We tell very convincing stories, we slightly shrug our shoulders. 我们说的故事...

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