TED演讲之败中求胜 成功是一条延续的旅程(1)

Why do so many people reach success and then fail? 为什么有这么多人在成功以后失败? One of the big reasons is, we think success is a one-way street. 最主要的原因之一是,我们把成功当作一条单行道。 So we do everything that leads up to success, but then we get there. 我们尽其所能地达到成功,当我们到达那一步以后, We figure we've made it, we sit back in our comfort zone, 我...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 解读羞耻(3)

The first is: vulnerability is not weakness. 第一件事,脆弱不是弱点。 And that myth is profoundly dangerous. 并且这种错误理解非常危险。 Let me ask you honestly — and I'll give you this warning, I'm trained as a therapist, so I can out-wait you uncomfortably 我想诚恳地请问大家 — 先给个提醒,作为一个受过专业训练的治疗师,我知道你们会感觉不太自在 — so ...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 去怀疑的勇气(1)

In Oxford in the 1950s, there was a fantastic doctor, who was very unusual, named Alice Stewart. 在20世纪50年代的牛津,有一位相当优秀而又极不寻常的医生,她叫Alice Stewart Alice。 And Alice was unusual partly because, of course, she was a woman, which was pretty rare in the 1950s. 她很不寻常,因为她是个女医生,这在20世纪50年代很罕见。 And she was brilliant, she was one of the...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 去怀疑的勇气(7)

If we aren't going to be afraid of conflict, we have to see it as thinking, and then we have to get really good at it. 如果我们不惧怕矛盾的话,我们必须把它当作思考,然后我们必须变得很擅长。 So, recently, I worked with an executive named Joe, and Joe worked for a medical device company. 因此,最近,我在和一个叫Joe的行政人员工作,Joe为一家医疗设备公司工作。 And Joe was ver...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 医生们会犯错误(8)

And two days later I came to do my next emergency shift, and that's when my chief asked to speak to me quietly in her office. 两天后,又轮到我在急诊室值班。那时我的主任要我去她的办公室里私下谈谈。 And she said the three words: Do you remember? 她说了那三个字: 记得吗? "Do you remember that patient you saw with the sore throat?" “记得吗?那位你看过的喉咙酸痛的...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 你为何不会成就伟业(9)

And so the sins of the parents are visited on the poor children. 然后父母的罪恶就在可怜的孩子们身上应验了。 Why will you seek refuge in human relationships as your excuse not to find and pursue your passion? You know why. 你为什么把人际关系当成你不去追随你的热忱的借口?你自己知道为什么。 In your heart of hearts, you know why, and I'm being deadly serious. 在你内心的内心...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 温和的成功哲学(9)

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, 常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. 不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。 They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. 如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 你为何不会成就伟业(7)

What do you want me to say? 你们想让我说什么? Now, do you really want me to say now, tell you, "Really, I swear I don't kick children." 现在,你们真的想让我说,告诉你们,“真的,我发誓我不踢小孩。” Look at the worldview you've given yourself. You're a hero no matter what. 嗯?看看你给自己定的世界观。无论如何你都是个英雄。 And I, by suggesting ever so de...

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TED演讲之入门 宏观历史(9)

So — Here we are, back at the convention center. 那么,我们现在回到演讲厅。 We've been on a journey, a return journey, of 13.7 billion years. 我们已经在一个旅行、一个追溯137亿年的旅行中。 I hope you agree this is a powerful story. 我希望你认同这是一个震撼人心的故事。 And it's a story in which humans play an astonishing and creative role. But it also contains wa...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 温和的成功哲学(2)

The dominant kind of snobbery that exists nowadays is job snobbery. 今天,最主要的势利就是对职业的势利。 You encounter it within minutes at a party, 你在派对中不用一分钟就能体会到, when you get asked that famous iconic question of the early 21st century, "What do you do?" 当你被问到这个21世纪初最有代表性的问题:你是做什么的? According to how you answer that quest...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 医生们会犯错误(3)

And that was the message that I absorbed when I was in med school. 这就是我在医学院时得到的信息。 I was an obsessive compulsive student. 我是一个有着强迫症倾向的学生。 In high school, a classmate once said that Brian Goldman would study for a blood test. 在中学时,有个同学曾经说布莱恩·高德曼会为了血液测验复习。 And so I did. And I studied in my little garret at the nurses...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 怎样从错误中学习(1)

I have been teaching for a long time, and in doing so have acquired a body of knowledge about kids 我从事教师工作很长一段时间了,而在我教书的过程当中我学了很多关于孩子与学习的知识, and learning that I really wish more people would understand about the potential of students. 我非常希望更多人可以了解学生的潜能。 In 1931, my grandmother — bottom left for you guys over he...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 犯错的价值(1)

So it's 1995, I'm in college, and a friend and I go on a road trip from Providence, Rhode Island to Portland, Oregon. 当时是95年,我在上大学,我和一个朋友开车去玩,从罗得岛的普罗旺斯区出发到奥勒冈州的波特兰市。 And you know, we're young and unemployed, so we do the whole thing on back roads through state parks and national forests 我们年轻,无业,于是整个旅程都在...

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TED演讲之身体语言 别对我撒谎(5)

Lying's complex. It's woven into the fabric of our daily and our business lives. 说谎这事挺复杂的。这跟我们的日常生活与工作交织在一起。 We're deeply ambivalent about the truth. 我们对真相总是拿捏不准。 We parse it out on an as-needed basis, sometimes for very good reasons, other times just because we don't understand the gaps in our lives. 我们在需要的时候才...

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TED演讲之身体语言 微笑背后隐藏的力量(1)

When I was a child, I always wanted to be a superhero. I wanted to save the world and make everyone happy. 小时候,我一直梦想成为一个超级英雄。我想要拯救世界并让所有人快乐。 But I knew that I'd need superpowers to make my dreams come true. 但我知道我需要拥有超能力来实现梦想。 So I used to embark on these imaginary journeys to find intergalactic objects from planet Krypto...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 不要一悔再悔(7)

So in other words, we know most of what we know about regret by the study of finance. But it turns out, when you look overall at what people regret in life, you know what, our financial decisions don't even rank. 换句话说,我们是通过金融研究了解了遗憾。但结果是当你思量人们生命中的憾事时,我们的财务决定根本就是排不上号。 They account for less than three percent of our tot...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 去怀疑的勇气(3)

It flew in the face of conventional wisdom, which was huge enthusiasm for the cool new technology of that age, which was the X-ray machine. 这对于这一观念是很大的冲击,尤其是对于当时的新科技X光机器的巨大热情。 And it flew in the face of doctors' idea of themselves, which was as people who helped patients, they didn't harm them. 而且对于医生对自己的看法也是巨大的冲击...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 犯错的价值(8)

Last year, for various reasons, I found myself listening to a lot of episodes of the Public Radio show This American Life. 因为一些缘故,去年我在广播上听了很多集的“我们的美国人生”。 And so I'm listening and I'm listening, and at some point, I start feeling like all the stories are about being wrong. 我听着听着,突然发现这些故事全和犯错有关。 And my first thought was,...

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TED演讲之败中求胜 你为何不会成就伟业(1)

I want to discuss with you this afternoon why you're going to fail to have a great career. 今天下午我想和你们讨论一下你为什么不会成就伟业。 I'm an economist. I do dismal. End of the day, it's ready for dismal remarks. 我是个经济学家。我让人心情低落。一天过完了,准备好听听让人心情低落的评论。 I only want to talk to those of you who want a great career. 我只想和你...

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TED演讲之入门 宏观历史(7)

For most of that time of life on Earth, living organisms have been relatively simple — single cells. 地球的大多数时间,生物体多是以简单的单细胞存在的。 But they had great diversity, and, inside, great complexity. 但是它们是十分多样的,而且,内部结构极其复杂。 Then from about 600 to 800 million years ago, multi-celled organisms appear. 然后6亿年到8亿年之前,多细胞生物出...

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