Now let's take this back into my world of medicine where I'm a lot more comfortable, 现在让我们回到我的世界，医疗领域。这个领域我比较熟悉， or perhaps a bit less comfortable after what I'm going to talk to you about. 但我接下来要说的却让
But each time, they were gnawing at me, eating at me. 但每当我想到这两起病例，那种感觉都会折磨啃噬我。 And I'd like to be able to say to you that my worst mistakes only happened in the first five years of practice as many of
So this is the complexity of the world that surrounds us. 所以这就是我们所处环境的复杂性。 This perhaps is why we find the God complex so tempting. 这也许正是为什么我们发现“万能神力”这么有吸引力的原因。 We tend to retreat and say, "We can dra
And this was all actually quite shocking to me, because prior to this moment, I had prided myself on having absolutely no regrets. 这让我十分震惊，因为在那之前，我告诉自己，我绝对不会后悔的。 I made a lot of mistakes and dumb deci
But, you know, our stories are like this because our lives are like this. 但，故事会这样写是因为人生就是这样。 We think this one thing is going to happen and something else happens instead. 我们以为某些事情会这样发生，发生的却是其它事。 Geor
What do you do? Well, there are steps we can take to navigate our way through the morass. 怎么办呢？有几个步骤可以指导我们走出迷雾。 Trained liespotters get to the truth 90 percent of the time. 受过识谎训练的人能认识到90%的真相。 The res
She worked with a statistician named George Kneale, and George was pretty much everything that Alice wasn't. 她当时与一位名叫George Kneale的统计学家合作，而George刚好与Alice互补。 So, Alice was very outgoing and sociable, a
Now, the going gets tougher. The next stage introduces entities that are significantly more fragile, significantly more vulnerable, 现在，（变化的条件）就更加苛刻了。下一个阶段是初次形成的个体，个体是明显更加弱小，更加脆弱的， but they're also muc
It is dangerous for patients to recover from heart attacks at home. 让心脏病人在家康复是危险的。 They should be in hospital." And there's this uproar, 他们应该留在医院里。”这引起了一片哗然， and all the doctors start pounding the tab
And reaching success, I always did what I loved. 为了成功，我总是做我最喜欢的事。 But then I got into stuff that I didn't love, like management. 但不喜欢的事慢慢接踵而来，像管理。 I am the world's worst manager, but I figured I shoul
This internal sense of rightness that we all experience so often 我们心中时常感觉到的理直气壮的感觉， is not a reliable guide to what is actually going on in the external world. 在真实世界中并不是个可靠的向导。 And when we act like it
An honest person is going to be cooperative. They're going to show they're on your side. 诚实的人会很合作。让你感觉他们站在你一边。 They're going to be enthusiastic. They're going to be willing and helpful to getting you
Okay, brilliant. Okay, here we go. From the beginning, can we do our phrases first? 好，非常好。好，我们开始。从头，我们可以先做我们的词语吗？ And then that. And we're going to build something now, organize it, the phrases. 然后再是那
And she goes, "Uh... no." 然后她说：“呃，不记得。” Of course, the only thing I could say at that point was, "Yeah, me neither. Yeah -- me neither." 所以当然了，我也只能说：“哦，我也是...我也是。” And I'm thinking to myself, "Brené,
I think this is a problem. I think it's a problem for each of us as individuals, in our personal and professional lives, 我认为这是个问题。我认为这是每个人私人生活和职业生活中的问题， and I think it's a problem for all of us collec
So they're solving this problem for me, having a little -- They're constructing that phrase. 他们在帮我解决这个问题，用一点——他们在组建那个词语。 They have something and they're going to hold on to it, yeah? 他们有些信息，他们会抓住它。 On
Until then, until then I'm going to keep banging on about trial and error and why we should abandon the God complex. 到那时候，到那时候，我会继续讨论测试和排除错误这个话题，以及为什么我们需要抛弃“万能神力”的态度。 Because it's so hard to admit our
So from there, from there, we're both getting up, we're both getting up, going in this direction, going underneath. 所以从那起，我们都站起来，我们都站起来，向这个方向走， 再从底下绕过去。 Whoa, whoa, underneath. Whoa, underneath, whoo-
Let's begin by winding the timeline back 13.7 billion years, to the beginning of time. 让我们把时间往回拨到137亿年前，也就是时间的开始。 Around us, there's nothing. There's not even time or space. 四周是什么也没有，根本没有时间与空间。 Imagin
Now, Alice had trouble getting funding for her research. 当时，Alice很难为她的研究筹备到资金。 In the end, she got just 1,000 pounds from the Lady Tata Memorial prize. 最后,她只得到了1000英镑，从Lady Tata纪念奖得来的。 And that meant
