TED演讲之身体语言 别对我撒谎(1)
Okay, now I don’t want to alarm anybody in this room, but it’s just come to my attention that the person to your right is a liar.
我不想吓唬你们，但是我发现坐在你右边的那个人是个骗子。
Also, the person to your left is a liar.
坐在你左边的人也是个骗子。
Also the person sitting in your very seats is a liar.
坐在你位置上的那个人还是个骗子。
We’re all liars. What I’m going to do today is I’m going to show you what the research says about why we’re all liars,
我们都是骗子。今天我要讲的一项研究，我们为什么是骗子，
how you can become a liespotter and why you might want to go the extra mile and go from liespotting to truth seeking, and ultimately to trust building.
如何识别谎言以及为什么要大费周折从识别谎言走向寻求真相，最终走到信任的建立。
Now, speaking of trust, ever since I wrote this book, “Liespotting,” no one wants to meet me in person anymore, no, no, no, no, no.
说到信任，自从我写了《识破谎言》之后，谁都不愿意再和我面对面打交道了，没门。
They say, “It’s okay, we’ll email you.”
大家都说：“没关系，我们会给你发邮件的。”
I can’t even get a coffee date at Starbucks.
我甚至约不到人去星巴克喝咖啡。
My husband’s like, “Honey, deception? Maybe you could have focused on cooking. How about French cooking?”
我先生说：“亲爱的，测谎？你还是把心思花在烹饪上吧。学做法国菜，怎么样？”
演讲简介：
每一天，都有人对我们说10次到200次谎。判断人是否在说谎的线索可能是细微而难以察觉的。《识破谎言》的作者Pamela Meyer讲述了测谎专家所使用的手法和“热点表情”，并提出诚实可贵的观点。