TED演讲之什么是爱:探索性商的奥秘(2)
In love, we want to have, we want to know the beloved. 在爱情中，我们想要拥有，我们想要了解我们的爱人 We want to minimize the distance. We want to contract that gap. 我们想腻在一起，想跨越阻碍 We want to neutralize the tensions. We want closeness. 我们想调和不安的情绪，我们想亲密无间。 But in desire, we tend to not really want to go back to the places we've already gone....