TED演讲之什么是爱:爱,本无条件(4)

And a lot of the time the question of parenthood is, 父母常常面对的问题是 what do we validate in our children, 孩子在哪些方面值得肯定 and what do we cure in them? 哪些方面需要治愈? Jim Sinclair, a prominent autism activist, said, 有名的自闭症专家,吉姆·辛克莱说, "When parents say 'I wish my child did not have autism,' "当父母说 '我希望我的孩子没有自闭...

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TED演讲之什么是爱:爱,本无条件(3)

And I said to her, "What do you think you did 我对她说, "你觉得你做了什么 that helped him to emerge as this charming, accomplished, wonderful person?" 帮他成为一个有魅力、成功、精彩的人吗?" And she said, "What did I do? I loved him, that's all. 她说,"我做了什么?我爱他,就这样 Clinton just always had that light in him. 克林顿一直都有这样的...

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TED演讲之什么是爱:爱,本无条件(2)

Should she say, "You're just like everyone else but a little bit shorter?" 她应该说“你和其他人一样,只是矮了点儿”? Or should she try to construct some kind of dwarf identity, 还是去试图建立某种小矮人身份认同 get involved in the Little People of America, 加入美国小个子联盟 become aware of what was happening for dwarfs? 开始了解矮人生活圈的那些事? And I suddenl...

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TED演讲之什么是爱:爱,本无条件(5)

I thought a lot about the mother of one disabled child I had seen, 我想起我见过的一个残疾孩子的母亲 a severely disabled child who died through caregiver neglect. 这个有严重残疾的孩子,因为照料不周而去世 And when his ashes were interred, his mother said, 当他的骨灰被安葬的时候,他的母亲说 "I pray here for forgiveness for having been twice robbed, "我在这里祈祷宽恕,...

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