乔斯韦登2013卫斯理大学(4)
And what you need to do is to honor that
你所需要做的 是尊重这个事实
to understand it, to unearth it
去理解它 去挖掘它
to listen to this other voice
去倾听这个相反的声音
All right, I'm losing this now, because
我现在要把帽子摘掉
otherwise it's coming off in a dramatic fashion at the wrong time
否则它肯定会在错误的时候 以很丢脸的方式飞出去
I know. I worked on this hair for a long time, so
我知道 我头发很久前就这样了
I had to bust it out
我需要去生发了
You have, which is a rare thing
你们有一个很特别的东西
that ability and the responsibility to listen to the dissent in yourself
也就是 倾听自身异议的能力和责任
to at least give it the floor, because it is the key
至少是让它展现出来 因为这很关键
not only to consciousness, but to real growth
不仅对意识而言 也对实际生长而言
To accept duality is to earn identity
接受二元性 才能获得个人身份
And identity is something that you are constantly earning
个人身份是你们一直在努力获得的事物
It is not just who you are
它不仅仅是你是谁
It is a process that you must be active in
这是一个你必须积极参与的过程
It's not just parroting your parents or the thoughts of your learned teachers
这不仅仅是机械模仿父母或博学的老师的思维方式
It is now more than ever about understanding yourself so you can become yourself
现在需要更多地理解自己 从而让你成为真正的自己
I talk about this contradiction, and this tension
我讲了这个矛盾 这个张力
there's two things I want to say about it
关于这个 我有两点要说的
One, it never goes away
一是 它永远不会消失
And if you think that achieving something, if you think that solving something
如果你认为达到什么高度 解决什么问题
if you think a career or a relationship will quiet that voice
或者拥有什么职业或关系就能平息这个声音
it will not
那你就错了
If you think that happiness means total peace
如果你认为幸福就是完全的平静
you will never be happy
那你将永远无法幸福
Peace comes from the acceptance of the part of you that can never be at peace
平静来自于对你内心深处永远无法平静这一事实的接受
人物简介
本视频是美国著名作家、影剧导演及影剧监制乔斯·韦登在卫斯理大学2013届毕业典礼上的演讲。十三分钟的演讲看似沉重，不断提起死亡等话题，实际上是勉励毕业生不要一味地去否认死亡等生命中不可或缺的另一面。他认为人生是生和死，积极和消极之间连起的一条直线，人只有明白了这种联系，尊重生活中的一切，理解它，看透它，感激它，才能过得开心。
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