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编者按: 对我来说，演艺事业的成功是次要的，人生最重要的是美满的婚姻、一个好丈夫和一双越来越有出息的子女。这些我都得到了，对此我心存感激。可是，无论我得到什么物质上的恩赐，真正的幸福必须源自我的内心。没有对他人的付出就不可能有任何回报。众所周知，随时准备行善才是根除忧愁的良药。 Don’t Step Out of Character By VIRGINIA SALE ON A PLANE flying from Chicago to New York, my seat com...
So this whole interaction with self and identity was a very difficult one for me growing up. 在我成长过程中，我一直都很难处理自我与身份之间的相互影响。 The self that I attempted to take out into the world was rejected over and over again. 那个我尝试着向周围的世界展示的自我，被一次又一次拒绝。 And my panic at not having a self that fit, 因为没有一个合适的自我...
And when I’m acting a role, I inhabit another self, and I give it life for awhile, 当我表演一个角色时，我进入了另一个自我，我在一段时间内赋予其生命， because when the self is suspended so is divisiveness and judgment. 当自我被抑制时，它的多样性和判断也会一同被抑制。 And I’ve played everything from a vengeful ghost in the time of slavery to Secretary of State in 2...
Another world was opening up around this time: performance and dancing. 在这个时候，另一个世界出现了：那就是表演和舞蹈。 That nagging dread of self-hood didn’t exist when I was dancing. 对于自我纠缠不清的恐惧，在我跳舞时并不存在。 I’d literally lose myself. And I was a really good dancer. 我像是失去了自己。我是一个好的舞蹈演员。 I would put all...
I was in Congo in February, 二月份的时候我在刚果， dancing and celebrating with women who’ve survived the destruction of their selves in literally unthinkable ways 与那些自我曾遭受难以想象的毁灭的女人们一起跳舞庆祝， destroyed because other brutalized, psychopathic selves all over that beautiful land are fueling our selves’ addiction to iPods, Pads, ...
Strangely, these revelations didn’t cure my low self-esteem, that feeling of otherness. 奇怪的是，这些启示并没有治愈我那缺少的自尊，那种被划为另类的感觉。 My desire to disappear was still very powerful. 我渴望消失的想法依旧十分强烈。 I had a degree from Cambridge; I had a thriving career, 我有一个剑桥的学位，我的事业蒸蒸日上， but my self was a car crash, and I wound u...
By 19, I was a fully-fledged movie actor, but still searching for definition. 当我19岁时，我已经是一个羽翼丰满的电影演员，但却仍在寻找定义。 I applied to read anthropology at university. 我在大学里申请攻读人类学。 Dr. Phyllis Lee gave me my interview, and she asked me, “How would you define race?” Phyllis Lee博士对我进行了面试，她问我：“你怎样定义...
I Want To Be A Better Person 我想成为更好的人 I want to be the kind of person who gives without expecting anything in return instead of continuing my selfish streak. 我想成为一个付出但不求回报的人，而不是继续做自私自利的事。 I want to spread love. I want to encourage peace. 我想要爱与和平。我想做些好事。 I want to feel good about doing good instead of only...
Be the Best of Whatever You Are — Douglas Malloch 做最好的自己–道格拉斯·马罗奇 If you can’t be a pine on the top of the hill 如果你当不了山巅的一棵劲松 Be a scrub in the valley 就做山谷里的灌木 But be the best little scrub by the side of the rill 但一定要做溪边最棒的一棵 Be a bush if you can’t be a tree 当不了一棵树，就做一...
Just Be You — Anthem Lights 做你自己 No one can do it just like you 没有人能像你一样 Something magic in the way you move 那样的充满魔力 You’re original, you know it’s true 你知道的，你是最初的你 Don’t let anybody take your tune 不要让任何人改变你 You ain’t got a single thing to prove 你不需要去证明什么 You...
Never Stop Being You — Terrie Brushette 做自己–特里·布鲁塞塔 Never stop caring about the little things in life. 时刻关注生活的细节。 Never stop dreaming, and don’t give into strife. 时刻保持梦想，不要向困难屈服。 Never stop wondering are we on our own. 时刻问问自己是否孤立无援。 Never stop thinking has your spirituality grown. 时...
Let Your Light Shine — Ellen Bailey 让自身发光–艾伦·贝利 Does the light of your soul still shine 你灵魂的光是否耀眼四射 Is it still a beacon that others can find 它是否还能被他人发现感知到 Or does a guilty conscience cover it like a film 又是否被如幕布般的内疚感遮盖 Dulling its rays and causing it to look dim 而变得暗淡无光昏沉阴暗 ...
伟大还表现为管理自己，而不是领导别人。我经常跟王石出去玩，爬山。大家都会很关注，一会儿爬这个峰，一会儿到北极点。他爬山大约只用了5年多时间，把七大洲最高峰都爬完了，加上南极点北极点，“7＋2”。对于当时已经四十七八、而今56岁的人，做到这样很不简单。 那他是怎么做到的呢？我们发现，在山上我们和他最大的区别在于他能管理自己。 比如他说几点进帐篷就几点进帐篷。为保持能量，食物...
现在的企业竞争是团队的竞争，也是人才的竞争。老板要想使自己的企业吸引更多的人才，实现企业的远大使命和目标，就必须做好以下几方面的工作。 一、企业的使命和愿景必须高远 企业的使命和愿景有多高、有多大，完全决定了企业未来的发展空间有多大，企业能做多大、走多远。高远的企业使命和愿景会吸引同祥有远大志向和抱负的有志之士前来加盟，和企业一起实现同共理想。如果老板没有把企业的使命和愿景定...